After 12 years of marriage, my wife and I have slowly
drifted apart. It was nobody’s fault really. We all
change with time and that which unites two people, does
change. True, the twelve years difference between our
ages did not help, but for me, something has always been
missing.

I always considered myself to be a normal, healthy,
heterosexual kind of guy. Never experienced what some say
was typical  boy-2-boy experimentation. I always
averted my eyes when sharing a shower in high school or
in the military. However, I did sneak a peak once or
twice when I knew …